Friday, June 17, 2016

Wedding Planner vs Venue Coodinator




Do you know the difference between a “Wedding Planner” and a “Venue Coordinator”? 

If not (or maybe you think you do), stay tuned to learn more about each of them.



Many brides and grooms think that they’re one in the same and believe that hiring a Wedding Planner whilst the venue provides their own coordinator is essentially paying for the same service twice.  This is entirely inaccurate!  The Wedding Planner and the Venue Coordinator each have their own job descriptions, purpose, and involvement on your wedding day.  The difference is that the Venue Coordinator works for the venue and supports their interests.  The Wedding Planner works for you – the Bride and Groom.



The Wedding Planner

The role of the Wedding Planner is to ensure your wedding runs smoothly and exceeds your expectations.  Planners offer various levels of service and are likely to have planned most, if not all, of the elements of your wedding day from start to finish.



You can hire a wedding planner right from the start – sharing your vision for your dream wedding.  The planner then steps into action with an exact idea of the logistics and style of your wedding.  For the bride and groom, this means there is someone on hand throughout the process who knows every detail about your wedding day.  So while you’re off getting married, you and your family can relax and enjoy every moment knowing that you have a planner ensuring every aspect of your day will be executed to perfection.



A Wedding Planner will be onsite and accessible on your Wedding Day from early morning until the last vendor has dismantled and departed the venue.  The planner will double (and triple check) that everything is just as you had envisioned – from the place settings to the lighting to those always entertaining toasts from the Best Man and Maid of Honor, and everything in-between.  Your planner handles the details and timings ensuring that everything runs according to schedule and plan.



The Wedding Planner is always prepared and can make sure that if anything goes wrong, they have the answer for it.  They come prepared for any potential mishap.  From those ever important vendor contact details to emergency sewing kits and breath mints, your planner will make sure there is never a need for panic.



The Venue Coordinator

The Venue Coordinator is usually the individual that responds to your initial inquiry and provides a tour of the venue.  Their role is part salesperson, ambassador for the venue, and point of contact between the couple and the on-site operations team.



The Venue Coordinator is responsible for all aspects of your wedding day that are specific to the venue.  Examples include drawing up the contract, organizing and scheduling the menu tastings, and monitoring all payments.  Once you’ve confirmed your wedding date, you will have little to no contact with them until a month or two before your wedding to sort out the logistics for your wedding day.



On the actual wedding day, their responsibility is to ensure the venue is set up correctly, your vendors adhere to their rules and that your refreshments and wedding breakfast are served correctly.  Many venue coordinators leave after the main meal has been served, perhaps leaving an operations manager or banquet manager in charge.

If you’re having a multi-venue wedding, your Wedding Planner and their team(s) will work together to set up each venue and coordinate transportation between them – something your in-house Venue Coordinator (who is tied to their specific venue) will be unable to do.
Regarding vendors, if you ask a Venue Coordinator for recommendations on a caterer, bakery, florist, music, etc., you will find that they will likely suggest someone from their own recommended list.  Unbeknownst to you, these are most likely vendors who have paid to be on their list or who work on a commission basis.  This is not true with all Venues, most refer vendors they are comfortable with and haven been working with over the years. So, you may not really be getting an honest referral based on someone’s merits or experience.
By contrast, Wedding Planners invest their time to build up a network of trusted vendors who they can call upon.  Not only will the Wedding Planner be personally acquainted with their work, but they’ll also tailor their vendor recommendations based on your budget, wedding style and personality.  This will ensure that you have a team of wedding professionals that we know will deliver superior service at the best value all within your budget.



Cost
Now that you’ve learned the difference between the role of the Wedding Planner and the role of the Venue Coordinator, you may now be wondering if the Wedding Planner is a wise and costly addition to your wedding.  As previously stated, the Wedding Planner works for you – the bride and groom.  They are well-versed in sourcing services through tough negotiations on your behalf.  We ensure that you get the most bang for your buck and pass on any savings from preferential rates to our valued clients.  As such, the Wedding Planner can save you not only time, but also money.
The Venue Coordinator may seem like a ‘free wedding planner’, but actually, they don’t have nearly as close a relationship or as deep an involvement as a Wedding Planner would have.  They are answerable to the venue and less able to offer discounts or other opportunities for savings.
Conclusion
There are many Venue Coordinators who are outstanding and go above and beyond to ensure their clients have their perfect wedding day and are a joy for the Wedding Planner to work alongside.  Nonetheless, it’s important to remember that the Wedding Planner is yours from the moment you’re engaged till you leave for your honeymoon.  On the other hand, the Venue Coordinator is more likely to be available during set office hours during the planning phase of your wedding and for a limited time on your actual wedding day.
In conclusion, the difference between a Wedding Planner and a Venue Coordinator simply comes down to the fact that a Wedding Planner has a greater vested interest in every aspect of your wedding because we are working for you.

YDYW
At Your Day Your Way, our goal as Wedding Planners is to make sure everything, up to and including the day of your wedding, not only runs smoothly, but is stress-free.  This allows you and your family to relax, enjoy your engagement as well as your Wedding Day!
As previously explained, a Wedding Planner can help you from the very beginning - from budget planning, creating your design and color scheme, to the all-important Vendor selection (for example, the
venue, caterer, florist, entertainment, transportation – you name it!)  This saves you time while also keeping you within budget.  I’ve had so many brides share that they had been contacting vendors on their lunch break or between work and school only to be forced to leave a message and wait for a return call – which, of course, happens when you can’t answer the phone.  A wedding planner can make all of the phone calls and handle all the details, while keeping you involved throughout the planning process.
In addition to the wedding planning packages we offer, we also provide “Day-Of” services.  As your Wedding Planner, we know what you envision for your wedding day and will execute it to perfection.  Many couples have proclaimed that they have family and friends that can (and want to) help with the setup of the décor at the venue or church, and the bride and groom can “get themselves down the aisle”.  At Your Day Your Way, we want you, your family, and friends to enjoy your wedding day without the stress.  We have an expert team that can handle all the details.  We also make sure your vendors arrive on time and are set up.
Have a loose button?  Is your hem falling out?  We have that emergency sewing kit ready to go.  Need a Band-Aid, Tylenol or ibuprophin?  We have the emergency medical kit as well.  Whatever your last-minute needs, we are here for you.
Your Day Your Way takes the planning off your shoulders, but never out of your hands!  Let us handle the time-consuming details so you can enjoy being engaged!
Like most vendors, we vary in price.  Do your research.  Look at how long they have been in business.  Read their reviews.  Meet with the Wedding Planner.  You want to hire a Wedding Planner that you’re comfortable with – if you can’t meet them face-to-face, talk with them over the phone.  Don’t just look at their web site and decide they are not for you.  Just because they are Popular or Expensive doesn’t mean they are the right Wedding Planner for you.
  Congratulations on your engagement and I look forward to the opportunity to work with you to plan your dream wedding.




Friday, June 10, 2016

                                                        The Bridesmaids Dress!


So many brides stress over finding that perfect dress for their bridesmaids,especially when they are all different body types! 
Manufacturers are hearing you! Now you can get one style dress made multiple ways! Look at this picture below... 
These dresses are amazing and flatter each girl accordingly.


                                


What you want to remember is keep the materials the same, if you choose Chiffon for one it's the same for everyone. If you are going to mix styles keep the colors the same as well, now there is one exception; your MOH. She can have a slightly lighter or darker color or even a different shade if it works with your palette, look at this photo. 


These girls all have the same style dress but the MOH is in the accent color. Beautiful! 

The only time is it acceptable to "Mix & Match" your styles and colors, is for am outdoor, Shabby Chis, Barn, Country or Antique theme. Check out this Barn Theme and Shabby Chic Bridal Party Photo's


Can you mix the colors and still not have it look like a prom..YES! Take a look! 

Length- Yes please keep the length the same the ONLY exception is the MOH again, she can have a long dress and the others can go Tea-length or Cocktail but that is it. 
This is a photo of What NOT to do. 

There are many manufactures now doing same dress with various style tops so consider this especially if you have different body shapes and sizes. 
As for the pricing that is a very personal decision, but do keep your bridesmaids comfort in mind  and also can they wear the dress again, if it's long can it be cut down, can you easily transform the dress to wear for another occasion?

Keeping all these things in mind will keep you stress free and your bridesmaids happy and comfortable, which makes for pretty pictures! 

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